How To Make Your Child Digitally Savvy | Maragon Private School
We see individuals found guilty on a number of grounds due to their social media posts on a daily basis. This does not only have an immediate affect but it also has a long-term effect, which both adults and teenagers do not realise. Both adults and teens should become more aware of the ‘new’ world we live in as a simple ‘post’ or ‘like’ could get them into hot water.
We have become digital citizens without even realising the complexities. We tend to live our ‘digital’ lives in the same manner as our ‘real’ lives without the realisation that with digital devices and with being connected all the time – we are unable to critically think before we say/post something and it is even harder to remove a post once it is out there. More and more adults and teenagers are falling victim to sexting, cyber bullying and the need for instant gratification – the sense of patience and perseverance are set aside as everything is instant. Children are losing the ability to connect emotionally and understand the necessity of waiting for something.
How can I help my child?
Set a good example – Children mimic what they see. How can we expect our children to know when to stop if parents do not know when to stop? Always make time for one-on-one/family time. Discussions should include school work, personal talk and an opportunity for your child to ask questions. Do not over react if the questions or statements are of such a nature that you are uncomfortable – your initial reaction is very important as your child will then know if they are able to talk to you or not.
Agree on terms of use and consequences – Ensure that your child understands that the device still belongs to you. Your child uses the device for educational purposes and games, which you have agreed on. Always ensure that you check and only allow age appropriate games. Please do proper research on games before allowing the download to take place. Ensure that you can access the device at any time – you should create the passcode, not your child.
Healthy balance – Ensure that you give your child some freedom with his/her device – ultimately they should learn to be responsible. Set limits and ensure that they agree to them, this will assist with “But mom, just 10 more minutes” – You are then in a position where you can say that, they have agreed to the limitations and that the device is now out of bounds.
Always make sure that these devices are charged in your room and not in a general area where it is easy to get the devices. Learners battle with sleep deprivation due to gaming and chatting for hours whilst they should be sleeping.
Setup Apple Parental control functions – view the set of instructions at: https://support.apple.com/en-za/HT201304#set-restrictions
For Andriod devices I suggest that you search for a good parental control App.
3 P’s of Digital Citizenship – Ensure that you have an in depth discussion about the serious nature of posting harmful and discriminating items on social media as well as the consequences of liking items of this nature. Children must always keep the 3 P’s in mind when on social media –
Would I be happy if: the Police saw this post
my Parents saw this post
my Principal saw this post
Ultimately, social media and the digital world has made us the most connected generation ever, but with this comes responsibilities. In my opinion, we are less connected in real life and more connected digitally, creating an environment in which we live in the present without being present.






